10 months update

We are out of the single digit months. Olivia Marie is 10 months old today. It seems like yesterday I was holding a tiny little 6 pound baby. Now, I have definitely improved my arm and back strength; trying to hold a 24 pound baby all day. There is so much that has changed from a month ago. Well to me everyday I discover something new with her; I'm sure you guys would be bored if I went back to every single day.

Here are some of the most important things that happened this month:
Olivia got her ears pierced. Back home in El Salvador, all baby girls get their ears pierced the same day or maybe a few days after they are born. It is a normal, everyday thing at the hospitals. I remember when I asked about it at the hospital in Arkansas. First it was silence as if they couldn't understand what I had just said. Second, I got the meanest stare as if I had asked that they would chop one of my daughter's limbs off. Lastly one of the nurses said: we don't do that, you will have plenty of other things to worry about. Well duh..I knew that, I was just asking. They do say if you have any questions you should ask. I was going to get them done sooner or later so might as well get them done while she was getting the hundred thousand pokes that she got those first days.

Anyhow she got them done after months days of convincing dad. He said he wanted to be there but every time we were close to getting them done something always came up: oh today is not a good day, it's raining; my head hurts, the dogs need a bath, the weather is nice so we should be at the beach, blah blah blah. So of course I tricked him into going and surprised him when we got there! Yay!! Tim held Olivia and it was done in literally 10 seconds. She cried for like 2 minutes max and then she forgot all about it. Immediately after she got them done, every time I looked at her it was like she was 5 years old. She looked so much older with earrings.

Olivia is not walking yet, she has mastered backwards crawling, and loves to be standing up with our help or the help of furniture. But for the most part she is pretty content where she is at. People that know her, joke around saying she just likes to sit and look pretty. She loves loves loves her furry brother and sister. They are actually doing very well with her, and of course dinner time is their favorite time to be near her. Olivia still sleeps 12 hours a night, and takes two naps during the day. She now has 4 top teeth and two bottom. She is such a happy baby, she loves to smile and give mama kisses. She also has started to extend her arms for us to carry her, and it is so cute to see her little arms trying to reach for us.
This week has been so special for us, since my parents are here for 3 weeks. More on that later.

Thanks for reading friends,

Happy 9 months!

                  


Happy 9 months para mi princesa! The best part of having a "flowy-dress" is being able to play it with it right? She will crawl every way except forward. She loves to stand holding on to something. She is wanting to start using her legs and putting one foot in front of the other when we hold her up.
Her two front upper teeth seem to be wanting to make an appearance. It has not been as tough as when she got the bottom teeth. Maybe it's because we know what to expect and we are more prepared for it. She loves loves loves the water and so do I. Mainly because after pool time she loves to take an afternoon nap; and I get to catch up on my reality tv :) and chores of course.

Olivia had her first playdate here in Florida. She loved it. She was exhausted and had a four hour nap right after. I was checking on her every hour to make sure she was ok; because this never happens. She will nap once in the morning and once in the afternoon for 1 hour and a half to two hours. So, naturally I am trying to schedule a playdate every single day. For her benefit of course. She still sleeps thru the night (12 hours). She is discovering her love for other food besides sweet potatoes.

As for me, well I am very thankful to be finding mama friends with babies the same or close in age as Olivia. Seeing her interact with other babies is so much fun.
If you are a stay at home mom I highly recommend you go out there and find other moms that you can hang out with. Even for working moms, it is really nice to talk to someone that is going through the same thing as you are.

I am not shy about making friends. This was very important to me when we were thinking about moving; since I don't know anyone else but my sister and her husband here in Florida. I want to make friends, but more importantly I want to be friends with other moms.
It is so nice to be able to have someone to relate to. Mom community is the best.
If you have moved to another city or if you don't have any mom friends, don't be scared to put yourself out there. Some of the things you can do are: join a "mommy and me" class, join a Facebook group or go to "meet-up"and find some groups that you are interested in. Trust me this will save your sanity. Husbands and boyfriends are great and they are awesome supporters, but let's face it we as women need other women.
I am thankful to be meeting some amazing women that I get to call friends.

Thanks for reading, until next time

I want to....

One of my favorite things to do is to go on a hike or a long walk. Before I lived in Arkansas I wanted nothing to do with the outdoors; unless it was going to the beach.
Living in Arkansas definitely forced me to be outside more, and I couldn't be more grateful for it.

Tim and I always try to find some of the state parks and trails around us to go visit. I was super excited to find out that we have tons of trails around us where we live here in Florida.
One of my favorite ones is called the Seminole Wekiva Trail. It is 14 miles long and it goes through wooded areas, quiet neighborhoods, and busy streets with plenty of restrooms, water and food stops.

The coolest thing about this trail is the "Paint the Trail" project. Jeff Sonksenthe is the amazing artist responsible for this mural that includes almost 500 paintings.
I haven't discovered them all, they are all spread out through the trail. Every time I go, I can't help but stop and admire all the paintings. I eventually want to take a picture of each one.

        


This past Sunday we discovered a new set. In between all the paintings is the 'Before I die, I want to..." wall. Of course this got me thinking..what do I want to do before I die? I think we all think about this in different stages of life and in every stage we might have a new list we want to accomplish. Or we add more things to our bucket list as we cross out some others.

Now that I have Olivia my list has definitely changed a little. It was really interesting to read all the things that people had written on the wall. "Save a life" "Learn a different Language" "Travel the world" "Leave a mark" "Be Happy" "Make a baby".
I think is important to have big and not so big and fun things that can be easily achieved.
I want to jump in a pool with my clothes on, ride in a hot air ballon, and visit all seven continents to name a few. It is exciting to look back and see some of the things I have already crossed out on my list like "go to mardi gras" "kiss on top of the eiffel tower" "live abroad".

What do you want to do before you die? What are some of the things you have already done? Whatever it is don't forget we only have one life.Tomorrow is not guaranteed for anyone. What are you waiting for? Do some of those things today! Have fun at it. Have a purpose. It doesn't have to be this grand master plan, there are some things we can do everyday to feel accomplished.
That is one of the things I want to teach Olivia, the little things at the end are the big things. Laugh often! Enjoy the moment!

Have a great week friends,

8 months update

Yesterday, Tim and I were remembering of how scared excited we were dreaming about the day we would have Olivia with us. Just like that, in the blink on a eye, she is turning 8 months old today.
We have been busy adjusting to our new life in Florida. The weather here is amazing! Not too hot or humid yet; we will see in a few more months. We have been traveling around the state and exploring some pretty cool places. It is so nice to get to experience our travel adventures with Olivia and cannot wait until she is older and remembers them.

We have been to the beach pretty regularly, and it seems that Olivia likes it. Well, I don't know if she likes or not but she does seem interested in the sand and wants to eat it.
She is now eating solids regularly three times a day for breakfast, lunch and dinner. She is an adventurous eater; and I haven't found anything that she doesn't enjoy eating. Her favorite food is still sweet potatoes. Olivia has never gotten sick (Thank God) She is a very healthy baby!

She is getting better at being on her tummy and pushing up but no crawling yet.
Olivia is a talker. I wonder who she gets that from. We are in a constant battle of "mama" and "dada" here at home. She has said both words but not with intent so it doesn't count.
She had her first swimming experience, and she absolutely loved the water. I was a bit nervous about having her out in the pool for that long. We made sure we had everything we needed to protect her from the sun. The best part was that her afternoon nap was almost 3 hours long after that first swim.

She is still sleeping 12 hours at night. She takes 2 naps during day. Olivia is a very happy baby and loves to smile and giggle. She now knows for sure who her mom and dad are. Every time a stranger tries to talk to her she will just stare at them for a second and then turn to us and start "talking".
She loves to sit in the shopping carts, so she can see everything around her. I always dreamt about this. When she was a newborn and we would go shopping at the grocery store or anywhere else. I would see all these parents with their kids sitting down and plenty of space to put groceries in their cart. I would always have Olivia in the car seat placed in the shopping cart. I remember thinking wow one day she will be able to sit on her own in the cart and I won't have to worry about where to put my groceries. It seems like those days were so long ago; but I am reminded of them when I see moms with newborns doing the same thing. I realize that I am not the first mom or will be the last going through all of these things.

I have looked into "mommy and me" classes. I am excited to go visit a few places and pick the best one for us. There are tons of "little gyms" around the area. I think it is a cool way to get babies and toddlers to interact with one another at a young age. We are also in the middle of planning Olivia's baptism. Faith is very important for Tim and I and we would love for Olivia to grow up in the church.
Olivia gets to spend time with my sister and brother in law pretty regularly and I absolutely love it. There is no better feeling to have your family around you especially when you have kids.

I love to see Olivia grow every single day. At the end of the day when I am tired and I am reflecting on my day, I think about how I miss her when she is sleeping. My favorite time of the day is when she wakes up and we get to do it all over again.

Thanks for reading friends,

 Since there are only 29 days in February this year; we celebrate Olivia turning 7 months old today. A lot has changed since our 6 months update.
The most important one is that we moved from Northwest Arkansas to Orlando Florida.
Okay  preparing for this move was a little bit crazy. Tim and I have moved plenty of times. Six times to be exact. I am not a fan of the whole process.
This time we decided to hire a moving company to come and load all of our stuff, drive it to our location and unload it. I really didn't want to be driving 18 hours in different cars with a baby and two dogs.
I was terrified a little scared about the driving part with a baby. 18 hours is a long trip for us and couldn't even imagine how it would feel for a baby that is strapped in a car seat for that long.

We left NWA at noon and drove for about 10 hours. Olivia did great; we stopped twice for feeding and bathroom breaks. In the in-between time she napped. We stopped to sleep and that night she slept until about 10am the next morning. We drove the rest of the way the next day; and we were excited when we cross the Florida state line and it was 75 degrees and sunny.

We are getting used to our new home and loving it. There are endless things to do in Florida. One of the things that I am most excited about is the beach. I grew up going to the beach almost every single weekend. Some of my best memories are at the beach with my family and friends. I am happy that Olivia will be able to experience something similar.

Olivia is growing and working on developing her personality. She is a very happy baby. She loves to smile, and eat. She started eating solids and she loves it. Her favorite food is sweet potatoes so far. She works hard on her tummy time and started to do some crawling movements. She is strong with her legs and can stand up with the assistance of mom and dad. She loves loves loves her furry brother and sister and they always want to be around her. At her last doctor's appointment she was a healthy 18 pounds. Shots always hurt for a minute but after she is a happy girl and doesn't seem to bother her at all. She officially has 2 bottom teeth out and she makes good use of them. She still sleeps thru the night for about 12 hours. She takes 2 naps a day sometimes 3.

I am extremely thankful for Tim's hard work that allows me to stay at home with Olivia and I don't miss a thing. Besides all the awesome things to do here in Florida what I am most grateful for is to be close to my sister and my brother in law. I am excited to be able to share a lot with her, and that Olivia will be super close to her aunt. They will be Olivia's godparents for her baptism coming soon!

Thanks for reading, hope all is well friends!

Half Birthday!

Half Birthday! Here we are. I remember looking at pictures of other babies celebrating their 6 months, and thinking, we have a long way before we are there. Here we are now....
Counting the weeks has stopped. I am definitely learning how to enjoy the now; and not be wishing for the next month, or next milestone, or when is something else going to happen.

So here is Olivia's 6 months update. She has now mastered sitting on her own. She started learning how to sit on her own when she has a little over 5 months. By now, she is a pro at it. She has also started to learn how to balance herself while standing. Of course, with the help of mom and dad. She can also hold herself up with the help of furniture.
No matter what toy is in front of her; her best entertainment are the dogs. We are teaching her how to interact with Collin and Ginger. The same thing goes for them. They are way more patient with her that she is with them.
She takes three naps a day. Goes to sleep around 7:30pm and sleeps thru the night until 7 or 8 in the morning.

Just went I thought, oh I now have this motherhood thing under control. I was reminded that this is a lifetime journey. A couple of weeks back, we got the visit from the horrible monster that starts with a "T" and ends with "eething'. We had 4 really rough days. Olivia was crying, mama was crying, the dogs were crying. Ok maybe the dogs weren't crying, they could care less; but the other two definitely happened.

At first I didn't know that we were dealing with that. I thought we were back from Florida and she was trying to get used to her old routine. Then, I started seeing all the signs, a lot of drooling, everything goes to the mouth, trying to bite everything. So, I went to Dr. Google,  and research all the teething signs and it sounded like that was the case.

Thank you thank you thank you to all my mom friends and dads that gave me so many things to try to alleviate some of the pain. I decided I was going to see how she felt the next day. Luckily she didn't wake up during the night. You know who sometimes new moms say they are afraid of the night time, well I was afraid of the day time.
Next day,  as soon as he woke up the crying would start so, I did what any mom/dad/person that wants their sanity back would do. I loaded the car with a screaming baby and went to Target to buy everything and anything that I had been recommended to try to help her. The cold blanket helped a lot but it would only last 10-15 minutes. Same thing for all the teething rings. Finally I gave in a tried Baby Orajel Naturals and it worked so well. I only had to use it twice that day. It was recommended by so many people and I called her pediatrician to make sure it was ok. After that day she has been back to normal and now we have 2 bottom baby teeth.

I was looking at newborn pictures of Olivia last night and cannot believe that the once tiny 6 pound 7 oz baby is now almost 17 pounds. I cannot wait to go to her checkup and see how much she is grown and the official weight.
6 months celebration is also for me, 6 months of  indescribable love. 6 months of giving my whole being to someone else, someone that depends on me 24/7; 6 months of putting her needs before my own. 6 months of thinking not on me first but on what would be the best for Olivia. Happy 6 months my beautiful daughter. Here is to a lifetime more!

We are back!

Ok....picking up where we left of. Well maybe not exactly..Things have been a little crazy around here. It seems like I blinked and  the holidays were over and now we are almost at the end of January. Time slow down please!!!!!
It is COLD here in Arkansas. I think I feel extra cold because we just got back from Florida. The weather in Florida was great.
What an amazing time that was. We were reunited with my family and some of them got to meet Olivia for the first time. Anytime I get to spend with my family is truly the best time for me. I miss them so much.
A few weeks, days before we flew to Florida; I was already freaking out about Olivia's first time in a plane. The night before I couldn't sleep, really that is just the way my brain functions. Let's review everything that could possibly go wrong, and let's find a solution to it. We were going to be "those people"...you know...the people with babies in planes.
A few weeks back, I had reached out to friends and family about advice for traveling with babies. Everyone gave me so much support, and talked about all the things that had worked for them. I am so grateful for the community of parents out there that help each other out.
We were taking two flights to Florida. When we were boarding, I did get some looks, and overheard someone saying: oh there is a baby on the plane. I took a deep breath, and said here we go. Olivia did great, I followed the main advice of making sure baby is either nursing, taking a bottle, or sucking on a paci for take-off and landing. That worked perfectly. Olivia ate and then feel asleep for the majority of the flight, she woke up and we had a few little toys ready for her (one a time of course) to entertain her and then went back to sleep.
All that stress for nothing. In reality, I think she is still young enough that she doesn't know what the heck is going on. As long as she is being held, which she was the whole time (I paid for that later when we got back home) she is fine with it.
Traveling with a baby is definitely a little stressful, you want to make sure you have everything you need. Anything that baby will need, travels for free. We took stroller with car seat, her portable bassinet for her to sleep in, and didn't have to pay the luggage fee. Try to stick somewhat to the schedule that baby has at home.
We had an amazing time and cannot wait until the next time we are all together. Being around my family makes me the happiest, and I am truly blessed to have all of them in my life and to be able to share so many things with them.

Thanks for stoping by, and I promise I will be more consistent with updates!